Love Is Blind star Ben Mezzenga seemed surprised when Sara Carton said no at the altar, but she revealed that they had actually discussed their answers ahead of time. "I was shocked about that," Sara,

Sara Carton agreed to keep seeing Ben Mezzenga after rejecting him at the altar on Love Is Blind for his seeming lack of engagement in anything with any depth -- among other relationship red flags -- only for him to ghost her a week or two later.

"We lived together for about a week or two, and then I got back to my home, and then he actually did drop me. He removed me from Find My Friends," Sara says.

Love Is Blind Season 5 alum Jimmy Presnell got thrown in the midst of Ben Mezzenga and Sara Carton‘s confrontation at the Season 8 reunion special on March 9. During the sit-dow

In Love is Blind season 8, Sara left Ben at the altar because he didn’t have an opinion on Black Lives Matter or the COVID vaccine, and because his church was too “traditional” and didn’t talk enough about LGBTQ 🤣 pic.twitter.com/NqpftX61Ms

Sara Carton tells PEOPLE she found herself "questioning if [Ben Mezzenga] was there for the right reasons" after several issues came to light, including his TikTok drama with an alleged ex and his You

Love Is Blind’s Ben and Sara Address TikTok Drama After Reunion (Exclusive) 'Love Is Blind's Sara Carton and Ben Mezzenga chat with ET after the season 8 reunion, streaming now on Netflix. Sara explains her decision to back out of their wedding,